We Moved to Spain and Everything Fell Apart (Part 1)
The part of the move nobody photographs: grief, a bereavement, apartment chaos and gaslighting, and a long battle with depression and anxiety.
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The leaving, the arriving, the falling apart, and the slow work of putting it back together. Newest first.
The part of the move nobody photographs: grief, a bereavement, apartment chaos and gaslighting, and a long battle with depression and anxiety.
Two months into life in Valencia: the restaurants, the bureaucracy, the metro misadventures, the smells, and two rental cars that did not go to plan.
The family made it to Spain. An honest account of the emotional, financial and physical toll of getting there, and what arrival actually felt like.
Why the Bird family decided to move to Valencia, how people reacted, and the beginning of documenting a move away from everything they knew.
Depression returns after coming off a medication that had been working, the gnawing thoughts that follow, and the methods that help hold the line.
A daughter's PANS diagnosis explained: what the condition is, how it surfaced after strep, and what treatment and acceptance have looked like since.
Why a photograph of Grandpa kept in the closet works as a daily mental-health boost, and how to recreate the memories that steady you on hard days.
Mental health during a year that upended everything: daily affirmations, gratitude writing, yoga, time in nature, and finding a good counsellor.
Two years after a thyroidectomy: what replacing a thyroid with hormone medication actually feels like, and why "the good cancer" is not that simple.